Dec 4, 2009

Getting Something For Nothing: The Just Do It Mentality



Today's proverb is a doozy:

Proverbs 10:2
"Ill-gotten treasures profit nothing,
but virtue saves from death."


I've been following the Tiger Woods fiasco and it never fails to amaze me how some people expect to get away with just doing whatever they feel like doing when they feel like doing it. There's no retribution for their actions that enters into possibility for them. The rules don't apply to them. They have nothing to limit their consumption be it greed, sex, food, drugs or whatever.

Nike's moniker for years was "Just Do It" and Tiger Woods seems to have taken that literally. His alleged affair is just one more note on the kind of stars that believe that the world is simply their own personal playground and they are the ones who have all the toys and don't have to share with others.

The virtues of temperance and fidelity are often checkpoints for us. Is my desire based on an unhealthy addiction that I feed all too easily. Do I keep in mind my present commitments and responsibilities? Or do I cast all of that to the wind? The latter seems to be all to easily dispensed with in a country where the divorce rate is close to 50%. Do half of the people who get married really understand the notion of commitment? Do both parties in a marriage understand that they will sacrifice for each other and that "no matter what" they need to be bound to one another working on the issues that face them?

Will both parties always have each other's back?

Or will one violate their sexual commitment and the other take a golf club and start swinging?

It seems to me that Tiger's empty virtues lead him to gain these ill-gotten treasures and if he only had a bit more humility he may not be in the headlines today.

But who am I to talk?

Often I forget my own commitments to my wife. I choose other things over spending time with her and some of those things are actually good things...like my ministry or even writing this blog. But they need to come secondarily to my marriage. And I need to remember that.

So I am off tonight to spend the weekend with my bride! In New York City for a day and then on to our family Christmas party (her side of the family). About 100 family members gather together to simply recommit ourselves to one another as family and to celebrate God's re-commitment to us at Christmas, where God embeds His commitment in human flesh, in human experience. God becomes one of us, as Joan Osbourne once wrote so we might "make our way home."

It is in that anticipation of this human God who loved us not only enough to take on our own flesh but also our own death, that we rejoice. It is not an ill-gotten treasure to be sure. But it is one that should indeed call us into virtue.

2 comments:

bill bannon said...

I believe you are giving too much credence to questionable journalistic sources. When we hear from Elin in concert with Tiger or from one of their parents, we will have a credible source. Tiger's web site statement says he betrayed his values not his wife. Right now the closest thing to a credible source is the golfer who introduced Tiger to Elin but his words could also be based on the media and not on some alleged phone call between Elin and his wife...which is another guess of the media itself. And he is the closest thing to a credible source and his source is guessed at. Here is a link from a Kansas journalist who also thinks this whole reporting direction is strange.

http://www.kansascity.com/182/story/1613268.html?storylink=omni_popular

And here is St. Thomas on our obligation to take doubts for the best even if we prove wrong again and again:

ST/2nd of the 2nd part/ Question 60/ article 4:

"Now no man ought to despise or in any way injure another man without urgent cause: and, consequently, unless we have evident indications of a person's wickedness, we ought to deem him good, by interpreting for the best whatever is doubtful about him....He who interprets doubtful matters for the best, may happen to be deceived more often than not; yet it is better to err frequently through thinking well of a wicked man, than to err less frequently through having an evil opinion of a good man, because in the latter case an injury is inflicted, but not in the former."

NC Sue said...

I think there are several ways to view the transgressions of others (i.e. Tiger Woods). It can make us feel rather righteous - "I don't sin like that" - or it can humble us by reminding us of the brokenness of our human condition. It can serve as a beacon to highlight someone else's mistakes, or it can cause us to ask God to help illuminate our own faults so that we can better serve him.

I'm not defending Tiger's affair(s), but I hope to use it to examine my own marriage, my own commitment. I hope I use it to keep from getting complacent. I don't want to take my spouse's fidelity for granted... It's far too easy to stumble and fall.

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